The Trauma Drama

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We have entered a delicate emotional and spiritual space in our “evolution” and I’ve heard from many recently in regards to feeling like the deeper emotional issues are coming up AGAIN to be processed.  From here, many are re-Creating their own emotional “traumas” in an inadvertent way both individually and in the bigger societal picture.  The definition of trauma is a deeply distressing or disturbing experience and when this happens we usually find an emotional “snapshot” which may leave our perceptions of this moment at great odds with the “reality” that we may still be living and re-living this detrimental emotional experience.  Exhaustively enough, it is “here” that we will find a great Key of transcendence if we allow ourselves to look a little further withIN to release some of the deeper social, psychological, and spiritual “programming” from separation and judgement.  This is especially important when we feel separated from Self because we are in judgment of our own underlying emotions that stem from the trauma or the not so conspicuous PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress “disorder”) that comes later which is actually a very NATURAL emotional response. When we find ourselves feeling discontent with others or societal influence due to underlying trauma or PTSD it is withIN that we find all the answers we need and, as a matter of fact, our answers are coded right into our DNA so we never need to look any further than right Here where YOU are.

We’ve all experienced something “negative” in our Lives whether it be in a physical, psychological (mental), emotional, or spiritual aspect.  One of the most common experiences is the perception of abandonment because we are ALL experiencing a newer awareness including that of separation as spiritual beings having a human experience. We learn, for the most part, the “God” resides somewhere outside of ourselves dictating our Lives in some way, shape, or form but the Truth is that we are the “God” of our own individual Universe which is shaped by our physical, psychological, emotional, and spiritual bodies.  Our preconceived ideals of what that means have been literally turned upside-down by our societal beliefs and familial expectations. The bottom line is this – if we haven’t made it ALL the way through our PAIN and found a Loving space for Self on the other side then we will most likely continue to re-Create our struggle in order to completely Overcome it.  This results in finding Love for Self and a more complete Healing by going through what we may be used to going around.  Over and over and round and round we go until we find Acceptance and Resolution leading to the KNOWING that we can never be any less than Whole or Complete even as we are experiencing “separation” and the feeling of abandonment that comes with it.

For this exercise we must think of “God” as our Higher Self who only has our best interests at Heart and wants to see YOU succeed in all areas of Life on Earth.  In other words, we have to KNOW that Self wants what’s best for Self and be able to put our Trust and Faith into this realization.  From here, we can see that the drama of our trauma doesn’t have to be so dramatic after all as it’s leading us to the ultimate prize of release, letting go, or Acceptance (however you chose to look at it).  The most important thing to remember about the stress that comes with trauma and PTSD is that we are searching for a way to have our Emotional needs met in order to move on.  We are ultimately trying to find a Safe emotional space where we are comfortable with expressing the emotions the event brought on in the first place.  It’s a very typical thing to project these emotional needs onto others and expect them to fulfill us which is, unfortunately, quite impossible.  The problem with this is that the person we are expecting to meet these emotional needs is unable because they can’t possibly know what Self needs more than Self which sets us (and them) up for “failure” in almost every situation.  Ultimately, Self is the only one who is experiencing Self’s emotions and in order to Heal we must meet our OWN emotional needs but that doesn’t mean we can’t have a Loving support system around us when we work through it.

As we put our Trust and Faith in our Higher Self we can begin to work with the damage and confusion on a more Spiritual level which brings significantly more accessible results.  We can begin to be Honest with ourselves about what our emotional needs really are and how these “needs” are effecting our Lives in the bigger picture.  We must be willing to establish how and with whom we are going about having these emotional needs met.  While we are in this process we MUST keep in mind that our emotional needs aren’t necessarily “unhealthy” rather we may be going about meeting them in an “unhealthy” way by doing harm to Self or others.  This is a very common theme, especially of late, and what we call emotional projection meaning that we are projecting our emotions onto others in order to have them meet an emotional need they cannot possibly meet setting us/them up to disappoint which causes us to be “traumatized” all over again.  This is also where we feel as if we take 2 steps forward and one step back or consistently end up back at “square one” which, as we’ve learned, is the TRUE definition of “insanity” – doing the same thing over and over expecting different results.

Every person and situation in our Lives is a mirror to the bigger picture of what we are trying to Learn about Self.  As we project our emotions and judgement onto others what we are really doing is asking Self to find Acceptance for the things we perceive as pissing us off or being “wrong” with the world or our relationships.  That’s certainly not to say there’s not some really negative energies out there but in order to transcend from the negativity we perceive “out there” we have to Love it into submission right “Here”.  This means what we “hate” or fear out there or in another is what we really hate or fear from withIN.  There’s nowhere to hide from this perception because we wouldn’t know hate and/or fear if we didn’t have it in our possession withIN.  These seemingly “negative” emotions are ALLERGIC to the energy of Love and in order to rid ourselves of them we must LOVE them from withIN.  From there, we begin to forget the negativity surrounding our trauma and can approach it from either a Loving standpoint or, even better, get to a place where we no longer put energy into it at ALL which is when it all but disappears as we (finally) move forward.

These epiphanies are uncomfortable and sometimes make us feel shame, guilt, or even “stupid” although it takes great commitment and courage to face what one truly hates and/or fears withIN.  It’s from this place of great vulnerability that we find our greatest Strength.  After all, this is when we Truly reach the rainbow bridge of emotionally imaginative Creation because we are in a Safe space where we aren’t doing “harm” onto others by way of our emotional projections.  Heaven on Earth is a mindset and a way of BEing rather than a place or an emotion that can be met by another from a projection because this IS part of the “illusion”.  The illusion tells us that we are incomplete, fragmented, or broken but the Truth is that we can never be these things in Spirit.  It’s only our judgment that tells us our emotions are “wrong” and our projection that tells us we need someone else to validate that the emotions are normal and healthy.  The safety comes when we no longer need this validation from others and find Love from withIN, even the parts of Self we think are “ugly”.  As most everything we Learned is upside-down, those who are reading this and embracing this process of Healing are opening up to a much deeper emotional vastness that covers all ends of the emotional and spiritual spectrum.  This means that by studying and making correction with our spiritual and emotional body we are able to Connect with Self and others in the most profound and expansive way.  From this end of the spectrum of pain, trauma, and PTSD to the other end of the spectrum of Love, Acceptance, and a Wholeness that comes from withIN.  This Loving Acceptance of Self is where we find our own personal brand of Heaven on Earth that comes from withIN and then begins to transform our reality (without).

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Jennifer Deisher is a Wounded Healer and Spiritual Transformation Artist. She is the writer of the Moon Hippie Mystic blog and co-founder of  Blueprints For Butterflies with her husband, Aaron. She & Aaron founded Blueprints For Butterflies as a safe, loving space to assist others who are Awakening and Healing.  To book a private healing session or reading; please visit BlueprintsForButterflies.com or contact us at Blueprintsforbutterflies@gmail.com.  References available upon request.

 

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The Rose…

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The Rose is the Alchemist who changes everything to Gold.  It is the Highest form of Divine Love and once it touches you your Light will shine Ever brighter.  We all have challenges in Life for if we didn’t we wouldn’t learn and grow so what would be the point of BEing Alive in the first place?  The key is how we move through the challenges and obstacles that come our way and what it leaves us with on the other side.  The obvious choice is to just roll with it and have a little Fun along the way if possible, and it’s always possible.

As the winds of change whisper through our Mother Earth and into our dreams we are beginning to Awaken from this deep slumber into a world unrecognizable to many of us.  It’s hard sometimes not to wonder how it was missed or didn’t quite register for all those years even though it was full of something close to…discontent.  Well, discontent is a Good thing right now because it means you care about something and maybe want to Learn how to dance, and laugh, and play a little again.  If you’re discontent with something it means that we are cleansing out the old to make room for the new so be Grateful and Courageous in knowing that everything is happening as it’s meant.  What a Gift to be able to transmute all the “negative” stuff into something shiny and new!  Maybe you’ll find something to make you smile or a new friend or an understanding ear along the way.  Anything is Possible.  Not only that, if you think it, feel it, BE it, and are so very Grateful for the NOW and everything that comes down the rabbit hole it is Limitless in its potential.  These are serious times and we’re all waiting to see if our voices of Peace and Love will be heard loud and clear but we have to make time to Love and Laugh, it’s our Love for our fellow brothers and sisters that has us so serious in the first place.  We are Loving them by finding the Joy and Love withIN.

Whatever isn’t working, change it.  Yes, it’s that simple.  Find Forgiveness in your Heart and let it all go.  What that means is letting go of all negative energy surrounding a person, place, or situation.  It means when something is “out of your control” you don’t sweat it because we aren’t Loving if we are in “worry”.  We are all doing the very best we can in every moment.  Know it and OWN it because we can!  It’s time to Trust with our Hearts wide open and see what measure of Joy it brings to ourselves and the collective of Humanity.  Whatever “we” are DOing and BEing, it is working so feel the Joy of it all and Dance.  Before there can BE change there must be Truth and Transparency so Treasure the dew frosted morning of the golden age as the seed of Joy and Love ripens from our Mother Earth.    Find your Joy and change what isn’t working because the point of the whole thing is that we are all Worthy of BEing Happy but it’s up to us to find out what makes us that way.  Transmute the negative junk to Gold by finding a new path or a new passion to put your whole Heart into.  If the Heart is there it means you are Loving what you are DOing so keep it growing because that’s how the Rose blooms, from a Loving and Joyous Heart.  Treasure yourself by finding the Joy and Love in whatever form it takes whether it’s a new hobby, career, epiphany, friend or  new beau.  If you can find your Happiness then you are already well on the way to becoming the Alchemist, the Rose, who transmutes everything to Pure Gold – Pure LOVE.  We are all Worthy of the Golden Treasure and it’s time to Celebrate our Homecoming of LOVE and ONEness by finding our Joy and Happiness…

Music to drive it Home (Treasure Yourself…):

Happy Anniversary to my hubby, my soulmate, my besty, and my everything.  I Treasure every moment with you…

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Lost at Sea…

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Let’s speak about a very big issue in our society which is extremely uncomfortable and I believe goes unspoken about in relation to the trauma it causes.  It is with great difficulty that I write this today because it’s a hot button issue not only for myself but for the majority of the people who come to us for Life Coaching.  I want to bring some clarity to childhood emotional abuse and the fallout it brings to a child’s Spirit and mental health.  There are very few people in our society who have had a “Leave it to Beaver” childhood which means that most people these days have suffered some form of abuse but for some reason we think of emotional abuse as “no big deal”.  I’m here to say that it IS a big deal and the trauma from this kind of abuse goes unrecognized for the most part due to the fact that there are no marks or bruises to say “someone is hurting me”.  There are many parents out there who have fallen victim to emotional abuse as children and don’t realize how deep the pain and abandonment go so it continues to be passed down from generation to generation.  When one suffers from emotional abuse they learn that Love=pain which means their Blueprint is upside-down.  An emotionally abused parent finds a precarious path when parenting solely based on what NOT to do so I would like to bring some insight into this type of abuse.  I would like to preface this by saying not all parents who “emotionally abuse” their children are bad people rather they are just as lost sometimes as the children they are raising.

As parents we need to understand that no matter how low our self-esteem or deep our insecurities our children look at us as their Creators therefore, to them, we are Everything!  Parents are “Gods/Goddesses” to their children and when a child suffers from emotional abuse it creates the deepest kind of trauma.  It is a most intimate form of violation when we raise our children in fear, anger, guilt, judgment, neglect, discouragement, indignity, scorn, shame, lack of communication, ridicule, jealousy, criticism, and/or resentment.  Our children are never “consequences” of bad decisions or bad relationships and it is most unfair for a parent to lay this kind of emotional burden on a child.  It’s equivalent to asking a child to hold the weight of not only their world but the weight of the parents world on their shoulders and this clearly can’t be expected of a child.  Our job as parents is not to create a “mini me” who represents all of our ideals rather we are here to mentor their Spirit so they can find their own Gifts and their own way.  It is not for us as parents to Live vicariously through our children by putting our “rules” and expectations on them when we Live in a Limitless world.  We are there for guidance, safety, and consistency so that they can feel Safe and Loved which brings Balance and Self Worth.  We speak of bullying in school but we how often to we stop and question where it begins, and it Always begins at Home.

The most common traumas that are induced from emotional abuse are low self-esteem, abandonment, and an extremely intense fear which sometimes manifests itself as anger.  The way we treat our children is a direct reflection of how we feel about ourselves making it a guilt-filled journey for parents who are emotionally abusive to their children.  This is why it’s so difficult for them to look at the wake of damage being done up close and personal.  It’s an endless cycle of emotional manipulation, projection, and deflection which leaves the child longing for some form of validation and consistency.  Parents who neglect or abuse their children emotionally are typically in a strong “victim” mentality therefore they cycle between abuse and guilt always looking for a reason to play the “victim” once again.  Most people that are in “victim” mentality refuse to recognize that they are projecting their emotions onto their children this way, complicated by the fact that many of them were also emotionally abused.  It takes the “victim” to recognize that they were a victim at some point or another and begin to deal with the pain and trauma surrounding the “event”.  Most emotionally abused parents who are also emotionally abusive are despondent, disconnected, distracted, and “weary of parenting” when most likely they never learned to care for themselves the proper way – much less a child.  They fail to understand that a parent is more Valuable than anything else in a child’s Life and that their Positive, Loving influence is crucial to the child’s emotional development.  The “abused/abusive” parent may not feel Worthy of the Love the child brings if they also learned that Love=pain.  Many use their children as the excuse to be a victim because they are stressed out or tired of “dealing” with the child because the child becomes a glaring mirror of what the parent doesn’t want to see in themselves.  They tend to look away rather than face the Truth which is compounded by the empathy and intuition almost every parent has at their disposal.  The real tragedy is that the parent is so consumed by having their own emotional needs met instead of focusing on the needs of the child, emotionally and otherwise.  I want to reiterate that because it is VERY important…the parent is consumed with having their emotional needs met above the needs of their child!  An abused child cannot help but feel abandonment and as such it becomes a continuous cycle of searching for Safe Love and in turn pushing it away to make sure it will come back.  The child becomes detached and alone leaving them to tread water in an endless sea of darkness yearning for the parents Love and approval.

When a child is emotionally abused it is the tendency to begin to act out and look for attention which they falsely mistake as Love.  They become so used to negative reinforcement at home that they begin looking for it in all areas of Life including school and relationships.  Once the child reaches an age of “accountability” the abusive parent typically begins to “give up” on the child due to the child’s destructive and angry behavior.  When this happens the abuser,  aka the “victim”, now has every excuse to continue the abusive behavior because the child is acting out and now they can “blame” the child for the mess, even though the behavior was incited by the abusive parent in the first place.  The child feels alone and feels as if there is no one they can count on to “have their back”.  The child is acting out because they are treading water, terrified, and screaming for help in whatever form it comes.  They literally have their hand up and are screaming for rescue in the form of that which they do not understand – Unconditional Love.  The more abandoned the child feels the more intense they will act out because their ultimate goal becomes pushing the parent away to find some sort of Trust in the parent/abuser.  There are no physical marks or scars so the child senses something is off but doesn’t understand what it is since they learned these things from Birth.  Emotional abuse is a slow, chronic process that eats away at the psyche of the child leaving a trail of broken promises behind for the child to reconstruct without the proper tools to do so.  The cries for help intensify as the child grows older if they cannot find the emotion of Love and Acceptance from the abusive parent.  These children will look for “love in all the wrong places” and when they find it they tend to push it away to avoid the pain that comes with their perception of what Love really means.  They learn that Love is inconsistent and has all kinds of “conditions” and oftentimes will become “addicted” to seeking and winning approval from the abusive parent even to the extent of rejecting other people in their Lives that Truly Love them.

It’s much easier for the parent to Heal and begin to parent their children from the Heart than it is for the child.  The child suffers much longer due to the endless quest for Love=pain provided the parent doesn’t begin to teach them they are Unconditionally Loved.  Neglect is also a form of emotional abuse and comes in the form of not nurturing a child and/or their emotions.  Abusive parents are inconsistent and as such the child is left to “walk on eggshells” because the abuse usually alternates between the parent’s Loving presence and the “victim” who presents themselves as the abuser.  A child is a “Godlike”, Spiritual presence in their Innocence and their Love for ALL but abusive parents literally steal their children’s Soul like a blood thirsty vampire.  What a parody of extremes when a child Loves a parent and is utterly terrified of them at the same time without Truly understanding where the fear comes from.  The marks, bruises, and scars are evident only to the child who is left confused and unable to comprehend their fear.  Neglect and abuse come in many forms including unreasonable expectations, anger, excessive punishment, physical and emotional neglect, lack of communication, bullying, name calling, Parental Alienation Syndrome (which involves a parent “bashing” another parent to the child – http://moonhippiemystic.com/2012/10/06/what-is-parental-alienation-syndrome/), and negative reinforcement.  It’s so important to talk to our children about their thoughts and feelings and to spend time interacting with them free from the distraction of television, computers, or phones.  Abused children don’t understand how to express their emotions the proper way because they don’t understand the emotion of Love and the abusive parent doesn’t leave room for the child to express themselves in any way, shape, or form.  The child learns that emotions are “weak” because they don’t have the forum in which to express themselves even though the parent is expressing themselves in the form of the abuse or neglect.  The parent usually suffers from their own childhood trauma and/or depression, alcoholism, or some form of addiction even if the “addiction” is the abusive cycle itself.  The “parent” is then replaced by a victim who enables the child to “raise themselves” due to the parent’s overwhelming guilt and the lack of emotional intelligence needed to face the consequences of the damage that is clearly evident.

A child’s needs are the same as anyone else’s wants in terms BEing seen and heard.  In other words, from an emotional aspect, what the parent may “want” the child actually Needs.  A child literally Needs Love to Survive and without it they become an empty shell longing for something they can’t even begin to put their finger on.  They generally grow up to lead a very lonely, perplexed Life resulting in an endless cycle of searching for Love and validation gaining momentum at every turn or “trauma”.  It’s imperative that a parent listen to their child, learn about their Hopes and Dreams, and Encourage them to pursue a Positive and Healthy Life.  A child should Always know that they are Safe and Loved Unconditionally.  It helps immensely if they are on a schedule so they know what to expect in their day as it helps keep them Balanced and shows the consistency they so desperately yearn for.  They Need Soul nourishment which can be accomplished by teaching them Happiness – yes, we actually have to teach our children how to be Happy.  There’s a great book written just for kids by my friend Patrick McMillan called “Discover Your Happiness Guide” which can assist in beginning the process of Teaching Happiness to our kiddos (http://www.amazon.com/Discover-Your-Happiness-Guide-Just/dp/1481191659/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1377702711&sr=8-1&keywords=patrick+mcmillan+happiness) .  A child, by definition, is Joy and when they aren’t able to feel Joy or feel that they bring Joy to their parents they are unable to find Happiness.  Martial Arts is also a great forum and  form of therapy for children who are emotionally abused or bullied as it teaches them discipline, inner strength, philosophy, meditation, and anger management. Most of these children are extremely angry and it does them good to have a forum in which to express themselves.  Positive reinforcement is key as is learning how to talk to the child in order to get them to express their emotions. There’s nothing easier than seeing Life through the eyes of an Innocent child and the wonder they bring to everything they see or touch.  Another necessity is learning to communicate with the child as most abused children are terrified of making any kind of mistake and often view every mistake as a “failure” which is why they tend to lie about small things fearing they will get in “trouble”.  This way of thinking is brought about because the child gets in “trouble” for unreasonable things and is, on most occasions, punished excessively by verbal abuse, yelling, spanking, or “alone” time that goes longer than is necessary.  It is important to observe the child and their behavior because a parent can gain much insight into the patterns and begin to learn what the child’s “triggers” are in order to adjust accordingly.

There are so many sayings and quotations about Unconditional Love but the words are lost on those who have never experienced the Emotion of it.  We can talk and talk for eons about Unconditional Love but until the child and/or parent Allows themselves to REceive Love the words will fall on deaf ears.  The most important thing to remember is that it takes time, patience, and consistency to undo the damage.  It’s a process in teaching the child about Love, Trust, and Happiness which can only be proved by allowing the child time to adjust and room to “act out” their fears and insecurities.  The child needs to feel they have a Safe place to express their emotions because most of the emotions will be fear and anger based which makes it “uncomfortable” for the parent and others who are close to the child.  As the parent it is important to learn Emotional Intelligence in order to be a Calm, Loving, Consistent presence in the child’s Life.  It’s important for the parent to Forgive themselves if they are to make changes because without Forgiveness the cycle will continue due to the emotion of guilt that the parent typically carries with them.  The Truth is, in a Spiritual sense, we are ALL Worthy of Love and Forgiveness and it’s never to late to Begin Again.  If you are in a place to Begin Again, please do so, you and your child are Worth finding Love, Peace, and Happiness in Life.  Make it so!

An Old Cherokee Tale:

One evening an old Cherokee Indian told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people. He said, ‘My son, the battle is between two ‘wolves’ inside us all. One is Evil.  It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.

The other is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith.’

The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: ‘Which wolf wins?’

The old Cherokee simply replied, ‘The one you feed.’

Music to drive it Home:

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Come Undone

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Artwork by Josephine Wall – http://www.josephinewall.net

BE as a child in the Universe.  A great change is upon us which has been predicted throughout millennia from almost every culture and religion in the World.  Nothing is as it seems these days so instead of fighting the rushing tides of change it’s time to begin to differentiate what’s in the best interests of all BEings Living in your neighborhood.  It’s also worth taking into consideration that your neighborhood may be a lot bigger than you think.  There has never been a better time or opportunity to Come Undone and begin to question the Secrets of the Universe.

We are an instant gratification, make no mistakes society.  We judge one another by a plethora of external ideals such as wealth, religion, race, sexuality, beauty, and athletic ability but where are the meat and potatoes?  We rush around trying to get everything done all while being plugged into a phone, computer, job, the kids, financial deadline, or any multitude of stressors that come our way on a daily basis.  How many people do you know, including yourSELF, who don’t even take a minute to breathe much less take into consideration that maybe we’re so stressed out because we aren’t Living a natural Life?  Maybe the reason the general population is stressed out is because it’s a Huge wake-up call that continues to go unanswered.  The alarm is screeching in your ear, the snooze button can’t be reset, and now the volume is reaching its crescendo.  I know for a fact that it’s much easier to STOP and let it all catch up than it is to run away from it with wheezing breath, anxiety pulsing through the blood, and a racing Heart wondering what the next thing is just around the corner.

I’ve been Honored to meet all kinds of people from all walks of Life and I’ve learned something from everyONE who has touched my LIfe.  I find many who are completely deaf and blind to the change that is so obviously coming our way whether we like it or not.  I find some who are in touch with some form of religion or spirituality but still struggle with self-LOVE and their Divinity.  I find none who have it all figured out.  Think about that for a minute.  I’ve learned a lot of something on this Life journey which is why I’m still Here to tell about it.  Yesterday I spoke about how many, many Souls are experiencing trauma as they Awaken to something they just can’t quite put their finger on.  Today I want to dig a little deeper.

At some point our society became entrenched in some really negative social conditioning which has traumatized our DNA to the point that our emotional imbalance comes out in all kinds of ways, both mental and physical.  It is not our natural state to Live in such stressful conditions and it’s everywhere we turn – chemtrails in the sky, fluoride in the water, fracking of the planet, synthetic food and medication, death and war on the news, and lack of time for meditation and exercise.  We are conditioned from Birth to think we have to be this way or that way but our Natural state is one of calm Creativity.  We are Creators in every sense of the word, make no mistake about this.  So, it’s a really difficult thing to realize that we are responsible, individually and together, for everything we see around us.  We are quite busy running from the emotions that were Divinely Gifted to us so that we are able to Create the very best Life for ourselves.  Our emotions tell us everything we need to know and if we can begin to Come Undone from the negative social conditioning we then find a Holy Grail of information about finding our best, True Self.   Change is not always easy but the fact of the matter is that the ONLY constant thing in the Universe happens to be change no matter how hard you fight it.  It’s an acrobatic feat to begin to recognize and Trust the emotions coming through with the wailing of the alarm clock blasting all around but there is nothing at all more necessary.  If it Feels wrong, no matter how much denial is thrown at it, it’s because it is wrong.  Our Natural state is Love.  Love for Self, Love for “God” or our planet, Love for family, and Love for our fellow brothers and sisters in whatever order you choose.  That being said, I’m going to get a little “paranormal” here for a minute because there needs to be a basic understanding of energy and how it works.  When we are Happy we are manifesting Positive energy, Love energy, for ourselves and our “neighbors”.  Likewise, when we are in fear, stress, anger, sickness, mental or emotional imbalance, poverty, and/or addiction we are manifesting a very negative energy about us which also affects our “neighbors”.  If we are Creators we Create the good as well as the bad and due to the “negativity” many are experiencing it causes intense emotional backlash for ourselves and the “Collective”.  Negative energies are very, very real and can be toxic both mentally and physically which is why it’s important to Wake Up from our subconscious slumber and begin to recognize our True state of existence.    Hell is real and so is Heaven but it all exists right here and now at this level of Consciousness so it really does a person well if they can begin to manifest Positivity and Love energy into their own Core of existence.  This is much easier said than done in most cases which is why it’s Time to unravel the Truth from the fiction which has been spoon-fed into us by all kinds of mode and method.  What we don’t realize is that the false, fear-based information we are being fed is being regurgitated into its own “entity” of negativity that affects everyONE on the planet.  Even harder to realize is that the more we become victim to this programming the more we are victimizing and harming ourselves, our children, and our planet.

When we shake the dark cloud of fog from our Hearts and minds we can begin to Live in Harmony from withIN which brings balance to Mother Earth and the Collective of Humanity by extension.  It is not our natural state to be in judgement of others either.  We are All diverse BEings with different flavors and spices of Limitless experience and when you put it all together you find a Brilliant “Cosmic Mind” of priceless data and information that can be drawn from to explain or enhance any path you wish to follow.  This Mind has no Limitations or rules so what we think about, whether you walk in fear or Love, is what we are Creating for ourselves and the Collective.  The catch is that the only ONE who can walk your Path is YOU and that’s why we are ALL so very Valuable just for BEing here.  It’s Time to DO what we can to wake up to the Eternal Love and Divine Wisdom that has been Gifted unto us by our Creator in whatever form you decide that Creator takes.  There is only Love and as Love and fear cannot co-exist it means that there is no fear, guilt, shame, lack, anger, jealousy, abuse of Self or others, and/or resentment that can Live there.  When we are in touch with our emotions, specifically the emotions of Love and Gratitude, we begin to Thrive in a way that can only BE described as Heaven.  It means our Eternal Essence is Love and we are Loved beyond measure.  We are Safe and Sound to explore – what a Gift!

Music to drive it Home (Come Undone and BE as a child in the Universe):

Capital Cities ~ Safe and Sound

About the author:

Jennifer Deisher has been sharing her gift of empathetic soul readings since her awakening, which converted her traumas into Experiences that unlocked the authentic Blueprints of the Soul. Today, her unique insight and connectedness with Spirit allows her to guide others into their True Self.

Jennifer believes the art of human connection has been conditioned into detachment from our True Self, which consequently denies us the essential Blueprints of our evolution. Driven to share her perspective with the world, her writing has been published on numerous websites around the world. She is also a media writer for The New Earth Project, and founded the website BlueprintsForButterflies to help others connect with their Higher Self and create a spiritual foundation in line with their own individual energy signature.  

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The River

No ONE can define The River.  The only ONE that can define the other is itself.  Life is The River…

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We are all diverse BEings, interconnected in the web of Life, each with their own special Gift that contributes to the Whole.  The intricate thread of Life Creates a web of ONEness.  Just as the tree produces the acorn for the squirrel we each have a Purpose.  It is only by Accepting one another’s diversity and our own that we will see that each ONE of us has something to contribute to the Whole.

The River is Powerful and there is always a new choice to be made in order to change direction.  Its energy runs in the infinite pattern of the Creator always coming back to the same place so there is an opportunity to make a new decision.  The crossroads that continually come up is our Spirit saying “make a new decision, just this once”.  The River brings us what we put our energy into so to change course or direction all we have to do is redirect our energy.  We can perpetuate Kindness and embrace Diversity choosing to See or Think about things in a different way.  By making a simple choice to find Kindness and Beauty in all we see we can change the vibration of the Whole and the web of Life.  People, places, things, and circumstances are only as important as the energy we give it – Positive or negative, it is up to us to choose.  We can choose to Honor Diversity as Diversity is the Web of Life!

Honor EveryONE that you meet.  Look and Hear and Feel them with an Open Heart and an Open Mind.  Honor them ALL and Find the keys to unlock their Beauty withIN.  We are all mirrors and what we see in the mirror is what we choose to see, it is up to us as to what we are looking FOR.

Honor Life and Love whether you are saying goodbye or saying hello.  Honor the Earth as she is our Mother and the Giver of Life.  Honor the Heart whether it is lost in sorrow or shining bright for all the world to see.  Honor the Art whether it is a masterpiece worth millions or a hopscotch pattern drawn on the ground with sidewalk chalk.  Honor the grassroots people who make a difference everyday.  Honor the Music whether it’s a top ten hit or your child’s violin screeching in your ear driving you half mad.  Honor the writing that touches your Heart whether it changed your Life or made you smile.   Honor your parents and your children, sisters and brothers, husbands and wives  for you wouldn’t be a family without them.  Honor your body whether you are an athlete or letting it all hang out.  Honor your sexual preference because God made you Perfect just the way you are.  Honor your emotions as they let you know what brings Joy to your Life and what brings resistance.  Honor yourSELF whether you are having a rough go of it or you are on top of the World.  Honor those who are Healing from loss and trauma whether they chose it or someone else did.  Honor Heaven by reaching Christ Consciousness.  Honor Life by embracing diversity.

The River is undefined until it defines itself.  I AM undefined until I define MYself.  Life is The River…

Music to drive it Home:

Natasha Bedingfield ~ Unwritten

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Where I Come From

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Where I come from and where I’m going are ONE and the same.  I don’t know if I will feel my Home again here on Earth where my feet touch the ground or when I leave this Wondrous place and join the company of Heaven.  There are many things I don’t know but there are also many things that I REmember…

We have to begin challenging ourselves and our belief systems at this point in our Human history.  If we begin to challenge ourselves and our belief systems we will begin to see the patterns of behavior set in place as defense mechanisms in how we deal with ourselves and others.  We can begin to see how much of our mind is in the machine and how much the machine is affecting Humanity and Mother Earth.  When we get our mind out of the machine we can begin to challenge the machine and the powers that were and Create something Divine.

Where I come from and where I’m going are ONE and the same.

Where I come from the Moon and the Stars are so close you can almost reach out and touch them because the Air is crisp and clean.  Where I come from the Flowers bloom in a constant cycle of Brilliant Colors unimaginable to the Human eye.  There is Prosperity and Equality for ALL Life.  There is an endless Abundance of food and medicine from the Earth who Provides all her children with everything they need to survive.  Where I come from it is not only a constitutional “right” but a Divine Right to pursue Life, Happiness, and Freedom from oppression.  Where I come from the Universal Laws are the only laws.  There is no pavement to choke the Earth from Her Breath and no toxic waste to soil her Waters and shores.  The Earth is a playground of Mystery and Magic.  Where I come from we communicate through our Emotions and our Empathetic Nature because there are no words to describe the depths of our Joyful Emotions.  All of our Emotions come from the energy that sparked our very Creation which is the energy of Unconditional Love.  There is no fear, nor jealousy, nor lust, nor envy, nor death as we know that the Universe wants to Provide for us and we are Worthy of being Provided for.  There is no need to protect oneself from harm, criticism, judgement,  or negativity because we Live in the transparency of Truth and Love.  There is an Unconditional Love and Acceptance for ALL Life in the multiverse   We Live our Lives to the fullest from our Hearts as they all beat in sync with one another and all Life in the multiverse   We sing and laugh and play every day as we search for the keys to unlock all the hidden wonders of Life because we know that to Live one must always accept change in order to Evolve, Learn, and Grow.  There is an endless supply of Knowledge and Wisdom to choose the path that peaks your Curiosity and Wonder.  We are in Awe of one another’s experiences and titillated to hear the details of  Amazing journeys undertaken in some of  the harshest of conditions in order to Grow in Spirit.   We are fiercely Loyal to those we Love but know that sometimes Love means letting go for to Love is to have Eternal Life.   Where I come from children are our greatest masters and teachers as ALL women are Mothers to the Children of Earth for to deny our Empathy and Love is to deny our very Soul.  We mirror the Beauty we see in one another’s Soul always searching to find more Beauty in the other as the Beauty of Life is endless.  We work in Harmony with one another, with Nature, and with the God and Goddess who are ever present in every decision we make which is always for the Greater Good in the Spirit of Love and Life.  Where I come from we Thrive in the gentle flow and rhythms of Bliss and Happiness ever Grateful for what we have and ever mindful of doing harm unto another or the multiverse.

Where I come from and where I’m going are ONE and the same…I AM an Angel of Earth, I AM a Mother to all the children of Earth, I AM from Heaven and Heaven shall return to me.

Music to drive it Home (As above, so below):

Justin Timberlake ~ Mirrors

Jennifer Deisher is the writer of the Moon Hippie Mystic blog and has been published on several Consciousness and Healing websites including Wake up World and OM Times Magazine.

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The Looking Glass

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Yes, pick me up.  I want to See you.  That is what she would say to you if you could “hear” her.  I’m speaking of our Mother here, of Gaia.

We look and look.  Everywhere we look for her.  In the trees, the wind, the river, the water, the Heart-shaped clouds, the Sun glinting through the leaves on the mountain, her breath on our skin, her Life inside our bodies.  She’s looking for you as you search for her.  Pick up the Looking Glass and let her see inside your Soul.  She Sees and Feels all that you wish to fall away from you.  She Sees you for who you really are and has Compassion for every Heartache and every mistake you think you’ve made along the way.  She Sees every ounce of the Beauty you possess…the Beauty you shy away from because you’ve been taught to believe that it comes from the outside-in instead of the other way around.  She Sees your Feminine side and wants you to REmember how Beautiful you are and the Light that you carry inside of you.  If you pick up the Looking Glass and See your Soul you will be blinded by your Light…she will See to that!  “Don’t you See how Amazing you are?” she would say to you.

Our Feminine energies are mellowing you even now.  We float softly like a leaf in the River of our Emotions.  We bend but never break.  We are the Givers of Life and the Keepers of the Heart.  We carry Divine Pearls of Wisdom and soft whispers in the night sky.  We are Angels of Love and Light.  You are so very Loved she would say to you.  Why do you not See you how I See you?  Why do you not See how Worthy you are of Love and how much I Love you?

We are the translucent rainbow in the sky after the Rain of your grief.  We dance and sway to the rhythm of your Heartbeat as it beats with my own.  We are the snowflakes glistening in the sun and the blue jays in the sky.  We are the flowers and the butterflies.  We are the lips in the clouds blowing kisses your way.  We are music, laughter, and joy.  We are the children who laugh and play on the swing with the children we have born with our wide feminine hips.  We were built for this, did you forget?  Forgiveness are the words she quietly whispers to your Heart.  We are the wives and your muses who ignite the Passion to protect and provide.  We have that affect.  We can’t help it as our Beauty knows no Limit of time or space.  She knows that you are always the very best you can be even if you can’t See it.

Look inside my mirror.  Look at your Soul.  See the Divine Dance of Life you have in your possession.  REmember me, REmember you.  I AM Gaia, your Mother. I AM you and you are me and we are all that is and all that will ever be.  We are Life, we are Passion forever ignited, we are Angels each and every ONE.

I want to See YOU, my child…

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Jennifer Deisher is the writer of the Moon Hippie Mystic blog and has been published on several Consciousness and Healing websites including Wake up World and OM Times Magazine.

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The Calling

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There is a Beautiful, Spiritual place here in Colorado called Sunrise Ranch Spiritual Retreat & Conference Center.  They are doing Amazing things in the Creative Field and offer a great many programs for Renewal, Learning, and Transformation.  David Karchere, who is the Spiritual Director, wrote this piece that spoke to me in so many ways.  With his permission I am publishing it here.  Please visit their website at www.sunriseranch.org or you can find them on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/SunriseRanchSpiritualRetreatCenter.  Thank You, David…
From the star-lit inner realms of being,
I speak of unfolding beauty,
Timeless reality,
And the opportunity which arrives new born with the morning sun.
I evoke remembrance
Of your deepest calling,
Your truest reality,
And your cosmic place
Here and now,
Holding this cycle of creation.
From out of the whirlwind,
At the center of creation,
I speak.
I am the peaceful center of being.
I am stillness in the midst of the turning world,
At rest and assured,
In the middle of the human drama.
I am your strength because I am constant and unmoving in my love.
I am your wisdom because I am the reality you seek.
I am your blessing, to be received by you and given to your world.
I am calling to you even now
From the Unseen.
Closer to you than the breath you take.
In dreams and thoughts I come,
In your restless urge
That will never settle for the trinkets
Of the world.
Hear me now as I say this one thing to you.
Take your place.
Take your place.
Be where you belong
In thought,
In feeling,
In awareness,
In answering the calling of your life,
The calling of the Reality you are,
And which you serve.
Join me, dear one,
At the center of the storm,
Inside the clamor and the noise,
Cloaked in my love,
Bathed in my peace,
Overflowing with my joy.
You belong here.
And from here
You may bring
The transforming, uplifting power
Of the whirlwind
Into the phenomenal world.
Remember now,
Remember now,
Your place in this home among the stars,
You were not put here by accident
On this blue-green orb,
The third planet from the sun.
You and your friends made her,
And are restoring her now,
Beginning with her crowning creation,
Man and woman
Made in the image and likeness of who you truly are.
The morning stars shout for joy!